Chapter 1: The Roots of Narcissistic Hatred

Many people wonder why narcissists seem to harbor such animosity, especially when all they offered was kindness and support. The truth is, narcissists often do feel hatred towards those close to them.

It’s important to recognize that during your time with a narcissist, their resentment toward you can grow significantly.

The dynamic typically starts with what’s known as love bombing, where the narcissist initially showers you with affection. However, as time progresses, they may start to feel deceived, realizing that you are not the idealized person they believed you to be.

This feeling of betrayal leads them to remain in the relationship for their own gain, while simultaneously fostering a deep-seated dislike for you. They may feel trapped, yet it is their choice to stay, which can result in increasingly harsh treatment over time.

Section 1.1: Accumulating Resentment

The longer you stay in the relationship, the worse the treatment often becomes. Here’s why:

1. Perceived Nagging: The narcissist may view your valid concerns as incessant nagging. They may feel that they are living their best life, and any reminders of responsibility seem unwarranted to them.
2. Conditional Tolerance: They may believe that you should feel grateful for their presence, viewing it as a favor rather than a mutual relationship.
3. Emotional Manipulation: You might express feelings of distress or frustration, which they interpret as weakness or an attempt to manipulate them.

4. Physical Deterioration: Over time, the self-image issues can manifest physically, leading to further disdain from the narcissist.

The narcissist often feels justified in their criticisms, as they compile a list of grievances against you. This list can grow indefinitely, leading to a point where they may decide to discard you altogether.

Subsection 1.1.1: The Consequences of Staying

As this resentment accumulates, the narcissist's treatment can become increasingly cruel. Their disdain is often a reflection of their own insecurities and failures projected onto you.

They may ultimately discard you, treating you as if you were unworthy of respect or affection. This cycle often leaves you wondering what went wrong.

Chapter 2: The Inevitable Return

In the video titled "What can make a narcissist start to hate you? | The Narcissists' Code Ep 755," we delve into the specific triggers that can lead to a narcissist's animosity, shedding light on the complexities of these relationships.

Another insightful perspective can be found in "Narcissists Hate You - The Truth," where the stark reality of living with a narcissist is explored further, exposing the harsh truths behind their behavior.

Ultimately, while the narcissist may seem to harbor deep hatred towards you, it's essential to remember that this is often a reflection of their internal struggles. With time, their feelings may shift, and they might reach out again, but it’s crucial to recognize the cycle for what it is.