Reflecting on 2023: A Year of Growth, Connection, and Resilience
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Chapter 1: A Toast to New Beginnings
As the year draws to a close, I find myself shifting towards a more positive mindset regarding my past achievements. For too long, I have allowed the passage of another year to weigh heavily on me, focusing on what I failed to accomplish rather than celebrating the victories. This year, I am committed to embracing gratitude and acknowledging the good in my life, steering clear of dwelling on the negatives.
Let’s raise a glass! Here’s to fostering a new outlook filled with appreciation for the bright moments, ensuring that my reflective nature doesn’t overshadow the light. Cheers to cherishing the positive aspects of life and embracing the joy that comes with them.
A Journey into Personal Finance
My exploration into personal finance kicked off on a restless night, spurred by late-night scrolling on Reddit. Thanks to my sister’s recommendation, I discovered the insightful work of Ramit Sethi. His podcasts and books became my guiding light, leading me to complete my first book in years, surpassing even my long-time companion, “The Martian.” This newfound knowledge empowered me to invest over 10% of my income, while also helping my husband optimize his 401k and adopt better financial practices. Transitioning to Monarch Money this year has further sharpened our grasp on our financial habits.
Thriving Airbnb and Domestic Joy
Our Airbnb business flourished, consistently covering our mortgage for three years straight, all while maintaining a perfect 5-star rating and without any major damages. This success is not only financial; it reflects the warm hospitality we’ve extended to guests. We’re finally nearing the completion of our renovations, which is an exciting prospect for our future cash flow.
Rediscovering the Joy of Reading
With a newly acquired library card, I reignited my passion for reading, an enriching activity that feeds the soul. This year, I delved into Ramit Sethi’s “I Will Teach You to Be Rich,” “Rich AF” by Vivian Tsu, and Joe Hill’s graphic novel, “Rain.” Reading was a significant part of my childhood, and I’m thrilled to have returned to it, especially considering how expensive books can be!
A Milestone in Public Speaking
A standout moment of the year was participating in an FYC panel in New York for a high-profile television show. Apple’s recognition allowed me to travel to LA in style, providing luxurious accommodations and a rewarding experience as a speaker. This opportunity was a testament to the public speaking skills I have honed over the years.
Rekindling Friendships and Deepening Connections
This year was enriched by reuniting with my college best friend in LA, reminding me of the enduring beauty of friendship. Additionally, a new friendship blossomed in LA, highlighting the power of connection and love in our lives.
Family Bonds and Nostalgic Moments
Helping my sister move back into our childhood home was a surreal yet fulfilling experience. Witnessing my nephew grow up in a nurturing environment has been a joy, especially as I observe my mother and uncle revel in his presence—a side of them I had not previously seen.
Culinary Ventures and Home Comforts
I embraced baking again after a long hiatus, starting with delightful shortbread biscuits. This year also brought me a sense of peace in the comfort of my home.
Entrepreneurial Spirit and Celebrations
Holding a stoop sale in Brooklyn was not only a successful decluttering effort but also a joyful and profitable experience. Hosting a Halloween gathering at our cabin and attending “Back to the Future” on Broadway were highlights of sheer joy.
Facing Grief and Finding Strength
The year was also marked by deep reflections on the loss of my father and my beloved heart rat, Teddy. Though these moments were painful, they strengthened my bond with my cousin and her family, creating a supportive network of love.
Joyful Travels and Cherished Connections
Joyful trips to the Dominican Republic, Disney World, and Holland, Michigan, punctuated the year, celebrating family and the pleasures of life’s journey.
Honoring Friendships and Career Achievements
This year was about celebrating friendships, both new and old, while reconnecting with former colleagues from Look FX. My resilience during the Hollywood strikes underscored my ability to navigate challenges in the industry.
As I stand on the brink of 2024, I reflect on 2023 with a heart brimming with gratitude and a hopeful outlook for what lies ahead. This year has woven a rich tapestry of experiences, each thread a cherished memory, creating a vibrant picture of growth, love, and lasting joy.